This was the central question explored during the in-depth talk show “Sexual Harassment: Silence or Speak Up?” on the morning of November 15, 2024, at Hall B1.302. Attracting nearly 300 students, the event addressed topics such as “sexuality,” “sexual harassment” and “legal aspects of sexual assault.” Through insights from experts in sociology, sexology, and law, UEH students gained valuable knowledge and skills to prevent and address sexual harassment effectively.
The program revolved around three key themes: understanding sexuality for healthy relationships, recognizing sexual harassment – love or a trap, and the legal framework for addressing sexual harassment.
Dr. Phạm Thị Thúy, a sociologist, opened the session with questions about openness and consent in sexual relationships. She guided discussions with two guest speakers, highlighting barriers to comprehensive sex education in Vietnam, societal hesitations in addressing sexuality, and the integration of sex education into the current curriculum.
The speakers clarified the concept of consent, emphasizing it as voluntary, informed, and free from coercion. They also warned about the severe legal consequences of actions taken without consent, helping students understand the importance of safeguarding their rights in relationships. With her approachable and engaging style, Dr. Nguyễn Lan Hải highlighted how many young people are exploited through seemingly affectionate acts that mask sexual harassment, causing long-term psychological harm. Lawyer Trần Minh Hùng further explained how consent can become a legal trap in complex relationships, advising students to understand the concept thoroughly and document evidence to avoid being falsely accused of offenses like sexual assault or harassment.
A notable moment was Dr. Hải’s statement: “Vietnamese people often have the longest childhood.” This sparked deep reflection among attendees. She explained that excessive familial protection and a lack of open discussions about sexuality leave many young people unprepared for relationships or vulnerable to sexual harassment, even by acquaintances. Dr. Hải urged Gen Z students to educate themselves about sexuality, love, and healthy relationship boundaries. The speakers also clarified behaviors considered sexual harassment, helping students recognize and avoid exploitation.
Students openly shared personal stories, some deeply intimate, for the speakers to address. The experts listened attentively and provided practical advice, empowering students to see speaking up against sexual harassment as both a right and a means of self-protection, fostering positive societal change.
Addressing outdated views like “Silence means consent” or “It’s natural for girls to be teased,” the speakers encouraged students to embrace gender equality and knowledge to challenge such notions.
On legal aspects, Lawyer Trần Minh Hùng noted that current laws on sexual harassment lack clarity. While civil law mentions “violating dignity,” administrative law refers to “disturbing public order,” focusing on location rather than context. Labor laws address sexual harassment in workplaces but not outside, and criminal law primarily covers victims under 16, leaving older victims with limited recourse. Furthermore, victims often bear the burden of proof, especially for psychological harm, which is hard to quantify. Consequently, penalties are often administrative rather than criminal, lacking sufficient deterrence.
Through the talk show, the speakers gained a deeper understanding of UEH students’ concerns. Dr. Thúy commended UEH for being a pioneer in student support, with clear sexual harassment reporting procedures, codes of conduct, and measures to protect students. She encouraged students to seek help from Department of Student Affairs via hotline, email, or in-person visits. In emergencies, students were advised to call the police (113) or confide in trusted individuals for guidance before reaching out externally.
The talk show ended with a powerful message: “Knowledge is your shield against risks, and speaking up is how you refuse to remain silent in the face of injustice.” The candid and insightful discussions empowered students with the confidence to confront sexual harassment and advocate for themselves and others.
News, photos: Department of Student Affairs (DSA)